{"id":22116,"date":"2022-05-26T09:23:46","date_gmt":"2022-05-26T04:23:46","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.bukhari.uz\/?p=22116"},"modified":"2022-05-25T19:35:24","modified_gmt":"2022-05-25T14:35:24","slug":"tadbir-ul-manzil-risolasi-oilaviy-munosabatlar-uchun-dasturulamal","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bukhari.uz\/?p=22116&lang=oz","title":{"rendered":"\u201cTADBIR UL-MANZIL\u201d RISOLASI \u2013 OILAVIY MUNOSABATLAR UCHUN DASTURULAMAL"},"content":{"rendered":"

Oila jamiyat hayotining boshlang\u02bbich bo\u02bbg\u02bbini sifatida ijtimoiy munosabatlarda muhim o\u02bbrin tutadi. Inson eng avvalo oilada kamolga yetadi, tarbiya topadi, ma\u02bcnaviy-axloqiy fazilatlarni egallaydi.<\/span><\/p>\n

Oila azal-azaldan Sharq xalqlari hayotida eng asosiy qadriyat sifatida jamiyatga ma\u02bcnan yetuk va jismonan barkamol insonni yetkazib beruvchi manba vazifasini o\u02bbtab kelgan. Shu bilan bir qatorda, islom dinida oilaviy munosabatlar, nikohning manfaatlari, er va xotinning burch va vazifalari, oilada farzand tarbiyasi kabi masalalarga nihoyatda katta ahamiyat qaratilgan. Muqaddas dinimizda oila qurishga ayol va erkak birdek targ\u02bbib qilingan. Jumladan, Qur\u02bconi karimda:\u00a0\u201cSizlar eslatma olishlaringiz uchun biz har bir narsani juft-juft qilib yaratdik\u201d, \u201cUning alomatlaridan\u00a0<\/strong>(yana biri)\u00a0\u2013 sizlar\u00a0<\/strong>(nafsni qondirish jihatidan)\u00a0taskin topishingiz uchun o\u02bbzlaringizdan juftlar yaratgani va o\u02bbrtangizda inoqlik va mehribonlik paydo qilganidir. Albatta, bunda tafakkur qiladigan kishilar uchun alomatlar bor\u201d, \u2013\u00a0<\/strong>deyiladi.<\/span><\/p>\n

Shu nuqtai nazardan aytish mumkinki, oilaviy munosabatlarni tartib-intizomga asoslangan holda olib borish jamiyat taraqqiyotiga, unda barkamol insonlar salmog\u02bbining oshishiga xizmat qiladi. Bu borada islom mutafakkirlari tomonidan ko\u02bbp sonli durdona asarlar yozilgan bo\u02bblib, mana shunday olimlardan bir Abu Ali ibn Sinodir. Ibn Sino o\u02bbzining \u201cTadbir ul-manzil\u201d nomli kichik, ammo nihoyatda foydali ma\u02bclumotlarga to\u02bbla bo\u02bblgan risolasida mazkur masala borasida takrorlanmas ma\u02bclumot va nasihatlarni keltiradi. Mazkur asarda oila, uning inson va jamiyat hayotidagi bebaho ahamiyati, oila boshlig\u02bbining vazifalari, uy-joyni idora etish shartlari, farzand tarbiyasida amal qilinishi lozim bo\u02bblgan jihatlar, oila rahbarining o\u02bbziga juft tanlashda e\u02bctibor qaratishi lozim bo\u02bblgan masalalar muhokama qilingan.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ibn Sino oila mustahkamligini ta\u02bcminlashda oila boshlig\u02bbi hisoblangan erkak zoti va ayol kishining burch va vazifalarini tasniflar ekan, ular amal qilishi lozim bo\u02bblgan quyidagi sifatlarni keltiradi:<\/span><\/p>\n

Ayollarning eng yaxshi sifatlari<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

Ayollarning eng yaxshisi quyidagi sifatlarga ega bo\u02bblishi kerak:<\/span><\/p>\n

    \n
  1. Aqlli bo\u02bblsin;<\/span><\/li>\n
  2. Dindor bo\u02bblsin;<\/span><\/li>\n
  3. Sharm-hayoli bo\u02bblsin;<\/span><\/li>\n
  4. Ziyrak va dono bo\u02bblsin;<\/span><\/li>\n
  5. Eriga mehr-muhabbatli bo\u02bblsin;<\/span><\/li>\n
  6. Ko\u02bbp farzand ko\u02bbruvchi bo\u02bblsin;<\/span><\/li>\n
  7. Tili uzun bo\u02bblmasin;<\/span><\/li>\n
  8. Itoatkor bo\u02bblsin;<\/span><\/li>\n
  9. Pokdil bo\u02bblsin, makkor bo\u02bblmasin;<\/span><\/li>\n
  10. Erini uning huzurida va yo\u02bbqligida g\u02bbiybat qilmasin;<\/span><\/li>\n
  11. Og\u02bbir-bosiq bo\u02bblsin;<\/span><\/li>\n
  12. Viqorli bo\u02bblsin;<\/span><\/li>\n
  13. Eriga xizmat qilishi bilan kibrlanmasin, balki tavozeli bo\u02bblsin;<\/span><\/li>\n
  14. Xatti-harakatlari va amallarini yaxshilik va ezgulikka asoslanib bajarsin;<\/span><\/li>\n
  15. Erining ozgina daromadini tejamkorlik asosida ziyoda qilsin;<\/span><\/li>\n
  16. Erining ko\u02bbnglidan g\u02bbam-anduh g\u02bbuborini go\u02bbzal axloqi va shirin tili bilan ketkazsin, erining qayg\u02bbusiga chiroyli lutf va muloyimlik bilan tasalli bersin.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

    Erkakning ayol borasidagi siyosati esa quyidagilarga asoslanishi kerak:<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

      \n
    1. Kuchli haybat, ya\u02bcni ayolning o\u02bbz eriga qarshi chiqish odatidan butunlay hayiqishi;<\/span><\/li>\n
    2. Mukammal hurmat, ya\u02bcni erning o\u02bbz ayoliga hurmat va ehtirom bilan munosabatda bo\u02bblishi;<\/span><\/li>\n
    3. Ayolning aqlini muhim ishlar bilan mashg\u02bbul qilish.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

      Oila boshqaruvida mana shunday tadbirlar amalga oshirilganda, oila mustahkamligi ta\u02bcminlanadi. Bunday oilada yetuk va sog\u02bblom farzandlar dunyoga keladi. Farzandning oila mustahkamligidagi beqiyos ahamiyatini to\u02bbg\u02bbri anglagan holda, Ibn Sino ota-onaning farzand ta\u02bclimida, tarbiyasida e\u02bctibor qaratishi lozim bo\u02bblgan jihatlarga to\u02bbxtaladi. Alloma ota-onaning farzand oldidagi birinchi vazifasi sifatida unga chiroyli ism qo\u02bbyish mas\u02bculiyatini ta\u02bckidlab ko\u02bbrsatadi. Albatta farzandga ism tanlash masalasida nihoyatda e\u02bctiborli bo\u02bblmoq lozim. Zero, chiroyli ism farzand ruhiyatiga ijobiy ta\u02bcsir ko\u02bbrsatadi, uning kelajakda yuksak axloqiy xislatlarni kasb etishiga sababchi bo\u02bbladi.<\/span><\/p>\n

      Ota-ona farzand tarbiyasida uning diniy va dunyoviy bilimlarni egallashiga alohida e\u02bctibor qaratishi, oila qurish yoshiga yetgach, uni uylantirib qo\u02bbyishi ham oilaning go\u02bbzal ko\u02bbrinishda davom etishiga sabab bo\u02bbladi.<\/span><\/p>\n

      Xulosa sifatida aytish mumkinki, Ibn Sinoning \u201cTadbir ul-manzil\u201d risolasi oilaviy munosabatlarni tartibga solishda, jamiyat rivojiga hissa qo\u02bbshuvchi fozil insonlarning yetishib chiqishida katta ahamiyatga ega bo\u02bblib, oilani boshqaruvchilar va uning a\u02bczolari uchun o\u02bbziga xos dasturulamal vazifasini bajaradi.<\/span><\/p>\n

      Sarvar Saidov
      \n<\/strong>Imom Termiziy xalqaro ilmiy-tadqiqot markazi<\/span>
      \nManbashunoslik bo\u02bblimi ilmiy xodimi<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

      Oila jamiyat hayotining boshlang\u02bbich bo\u02bbg\u02bbini sifatida ijtimoiy munosabatlarda muhim o\u02bbrin tutadi. Inson eng avvalo oilada kamolga yetadi, tarbiya topadi, ma\u02bcnaviy-axloqiy fazilatlarni egallaydi. Oila azal-azaldan Sharq xalqlari hayotida eng asosiy qadriyat sifatida jamiyatga ma\u02bcnan yetuk va jismonan barkamol insonni yetkazib beruvchi manba vazifasini o\u02bbtab kelgan. Shu bilan bir qatorda, islom dinida oilaviy munosabatlar, nikohning manfaatlari, er …<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":22114,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[639],"tags":[],"yoast_head":"\n\u201cTADBIR UL-MANZIL\u201d RISOLASI \u2013 OILAVIY MUNOSABATLAR UCHUN DASTURULAMAL - Imom Buxoriy xalqaro ilmiy-tadqiqot markazi<\/title>\n<meta name=\"description\" content=\"\u201cTADBIR UL-MANZIL\u201d RISOLASI \u2013 OILAVIY MUNOSABATLAR UCHUN DASTURULAMAL\" \/>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/bukhari.uz\/?p=22116&lang=oz\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"en_US\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"\u201cTADBIR UL-MANZIL\u201d RISOLASI \u2013 OILAVIY MUNOSABATLAR UCHUN DASTURULAMAL - 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